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Monday, June 6, 2011

Question: Doesn't the Bible say something about if I, as a Christian, marry an unbeliever that they will be saved too?

Scripture is very clear that a believer should not "partner" with and unbeliever - 2 Cor. 6:14 "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers." The term "partner" or "yoked" could refer to any number of relationships (marital, business, etc.) but Paul's primary association was probably ecclesiastically (church) focused. Paul's ultimate concern was that regardless of the situation the unbelievers not lead the believers astray in their teaching of the truth (see 2 Cor. 11:3; 1 Cor. 15:33).

If they are already "partners" (married) then Scripture is also very clear. 1 Cor. 7:12-16 states that the believing spouse must remain with the unbelieving spouse as long as they agree to do so. Divorce is to be avoided because the Christian spouse becomes a channel of God's grace in the marriage relationship. The two are "one flesh" and therefore as God gives His blessing to the believer, the other spouse receives some portion of the blessing. (examples in Scripture are Joseph in Potiphar's house, Gen. 39:5; and Jacob in Laban's house, Gen. 30:27) It is NOT that the unbelieving spouse is now personally justified before God because Romans 14:12 states that "each of us will give an account of himself to God." The ULTIMATE reason why the believing spouse should stay with their unbelieving spouse is that they might come to know Jesus personally by witnessing the example of the believing spouse living out God's love and grace in their personal life (see. 1 Cor. 7:16; 1 Peter 3:1-2).

Bottom line: If you're not married, don't marry an unbeliever. If you're already married to one then stay married and live like Jesus so that your spouse might come to know the Savior and believe in the Good News.

1 comment:

  1. Hi Matt. Good stuff. I've read through several of the blogs. My family is looking for a local church to worship and become involved. We currently go to College Park in Carmel and do like it. However, it being 35-40 minutes away has taken its toll. With a newborn on the way, I decided that we should check out a local church. Both my wife and I are Purdue grads from 1992, and I have an engineering degree like you. We currently live in Cambridge on Geist Lake just north of you all. Looking forward to checking out Geist Community Church.

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